Finding deep meaning..

I fought for nine months, and in the end you didn’t even ask me out.

(via theblogyoulove)

I hate hearing stuff like this. I don’t know this particular persons situation, but girls will always say things like “He doesn’t like me because he didn’t come talk to me” or “he doesn’t want to date me because he didn’t even ask me out.” That is some of the worst logic I’ve ever heard. Case and point: Do you like them? Yes. Did you talk to them or ask them out? No. I support equality between the sexes, and pretty much between anyone. So naturally it bothers me when I hear girls say things like this, which is so fucking sexist. You play into the gender roles that have been fueling feminism for decades. Why can’t you just ask someone out if you like them? I’ve asked a lot of my female friends this, and they will reply with things like “The guy should do it,” or “No way, what if he doesn’t like me?” Guess fucking what genius, someone is going to have to make that first step, and I’m not saying that girls should be responsible for making it either, I just think if you like someone you should tell them, not wait around and assume it’s their responsibility to come tell you just because they have a penis. Facing the possibility of rejection is daunting for everyone. In the same vain, girls will complain saying “Oh he didn’t text me today” blah blah, did you text him either? If not, what makes you think you’re not just as bad? So basically what I’m saying is, if the girl who posted this “I fought for nine months, and in the end you didn’t even ask me out” never asked that guy out either, then I don’t give a shit.